Doubt/Uncertainty

"One's first step in wisdom is to question everything - and one's last is to come to terms with everything."

"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough."

Both of these quotes fully express a lot of how many females may feel and how they been choosing to live their lives at one point of their life. I tend to realize that I question A LOT of what goes on in my personal and public life. Trying to figure out the 5 W's and ways to answer those questions that arise. It's not easy living an honest life and THAT I've come to terms with. Most importantly it's not easy living an honest life to YOURSELF. As human beings and as individuals we constantly try to make excuses for ourselves and the people we choose to surround ourselves with.

I choose to live my life with honesty, the only problem is I question whether I'm being honest to myself?? Directions that my personal life is going in questions whether or not i should even still be where I am at. I've trusted too much and been deceived and I'm now not trusting enough and exactly as the quote states I'm living in torment. Not allowing myself to be free from all the negatives a sour relationship can bring. Being a woman is a difficult task, you have "set requirements" so to speak to be strong, stay strong and live your life that way. Spend so much time in life dealing with everything that gets thrown at you because we sometimes feel like we can fix everything. Men tend to just push it behind them and cancel it out fast and easy. Question is when do you as a woman know when to put the brakes on a situation that never seems to progress?? How can you give your all for someone or something and feel like you're never receiving?? and most important how can you possibly be with someone and feel like you're alone? For that be single!

Enraged Woman vs. Careless Man

Enraged :: to make extremely angry; put into a rage; infuriate
Careless: means marked by lack of attention or consideration or forethought or thoroughness; not careful

Woman is in a relationship with man.
Relationship is on a straight road to happiness.
Relationship comes to a fork in the road.
Straight equals happiness, left equals possible failure.
Man takes a left. Woman continues straight. Man continues to veer down the wrong path and not search for ways to get back on a happy road.
Man runs into bumps along the way called "other women."
These other women feed him temptation, making him believe its okay to engage in it.
Man is starving so he eats, feeding them back what they want; engaging in sexual conversations without primary woman in mind. Man comes to the end of that left turn and meets up with woman again; there's another fork.
Straight equals happiness, left equals possible failure.
Woman goes straight; man follows.
Woman finds out about these bumps in the road, and wonders why her road was so smooth?
Woman's nurturing soul consoles man and assures him they are on a straight road now and together and they
must stick together and stay that way and happiness will eventually cross paths with them.
Man agrees.
Few miles down the road on a straight, smooth road is a bump. Confusing?
Why would someone put a bump in the middle of a straight smooth road?
This bump is called "respect", shortly there after this bump, there is another called "trust."
Woman and man are now stuck at respect, they cannot seem to gain enough height to go over this bump in order to get to trust.
Everytime man tries to go over "respect" he falls downward into disrespect. He can't seem to grasp onto the importance of it in order to climb over and keep moving.
His mind is stuck on previous "bumps" who ironically are trying to climb over as well.
Man wants to please and help everbody.
Woman expresses that he cannot focus on everyone and that they must help each other, leave others behind before gas runs low.
Man does not grasp that theory.
Man wants EVERYONE to get over the bump.
Woman is exhausted constantly having to fall back to help man who keeps descending.
Man argues the point of why he has to leave the other bumps behind; tells woman the bumps are coming with them and says if she stays there's not much woman can do but to let it go and accept the bumps.
So woman is now left with the decision to either stay and let go or leave and let go, problem is... she runs out of gas no matter which way she chooses... and now she's on EMPTY.

Question IS: Does a woman who becomes enraged because of a careless man's actions have a right to be enraged when the man is being careless about her feelings and opinions on the situation? BLOG COMMENT & LET'S SEE WHERE THIS TAKES US!